Are You For Real?

Just saw an article this morning in Vogue..."How do you know when it's Over?" And a second title was, "How to win him Back."

Ladies, first of all, it's over when you say it is. And second of all, if you have to "win" him back, you don't want him back...MOVE ON!

I'm sorry, but there isn't much I can stand about a woman chasing after a bad relationship. If it was a good one, it wouldn't be over. Now, I'm not talking about a long-standing marriage that seems to have taken a right turn for a bit. I'm specifically referring to the young relationships of a non-legal standing. (Boyfriend & Girlfriend).

This is the pre-marriage screening phase of a relationship. Obviously it didn't workout, so move on and up! You try on more than one piece of clothing or shoes before you settle on the perfect item don't you? Well, why on earth would you spend more time time selecting a temporary garment than you would a permanent mate? SAMPLE!

Love is a recipe and it takes time to cultivate and adjust. You try several different ones before you find your personal comfort food, so don't be dissuaded by having to throw out a bad batch every now and again. There's more ingredients out there! You're not a bad cook and you can do this, you just need to find your inspiration, so keep looking, don't suffer with a bad meal when a five star is out there waiting for you to discover it.